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Brother with inoperable pancreatic cancer


Bryansie

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Good Morning to each and everyone of you,

I have not been on here for so long, 2 days after my last visit to see my beautiful brother I got a call to say he did not have long, I rushed to London and spent his final 5 days with him, every minute was a blessing, some sad, some funny, we kissed, we laughed, we cried, we held each other tight, I watched my brother slowly leave this earth. My heart is broken but he is out of pain. No wordsatthis moment in time can make me feel better, I struggle each day, remembering the call I got 11 weeks earlier from him telling me that after having 2 weeks of stomach pain he was told he had inoperable pancreatic cancer, what a shock, Life is so so cruel, I have to tell myself everyday he was such a loving, caring, sweet, thoughtful person that he was needed else where. His Funeral was an amazing day, I am so proud of his partner, she gave him a lovely send off along with the 400 people that came to say goodbye. I stood up to read a poem and was lost for words when I looked around the room to see so many people there.


I send my love to all of you that have or are going through what I went through.

For you lovely lovely people who have limited time here, My thoughts and prayers are with you.


XXXXXX

Sue


IN LOVING MEMORY OF A BEAUTIFUL MAN/PARTNER/BROTHER/FATHER AND FRIEND

MICHAEL JOHN LIMERICK


11/6/1959 TO 27/7/2015 R.I.P

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My brother never got to see his new home, let alone live in it, I truly believe he did not want to go there as it would have made it harder for his partner, having him there for a few weeks and then he passed away.

Life is very strangeand stranger things happen/don't happen for a reason.

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I am so sorry to hear your news. I can feel your pain and heartbreak. I am glad the funeral was amazing and so many people attended.

Thinking of you and take care of yourself.

Love Sue xxx

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Hi Sue,

Life sure is very strange, I am so sorry you have lost your lovely brother Michael, this disease is so very cruel. In your case it was so swift, you can't have had a chance to take it all in yet. It will also be strange for his wife moving into a new place so soon without him.It was lovely that you could spend those last days with him. take care sandrax xx

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PCUK Nurse Rachel C

Dear Sue,


I am so sorry to hear this sad news.

On behalf of everyone at Pancreatic Cancer UK, I would like to offer our heartfelt condolences. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.


From all of the Support Team,


Rachel

Pancreatic Cancer Nurse Specialist.

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Hi Sue,


I wanted to say so sorry for loss of your lovely brother. A beautiful tribute you wrote about him. I hope you take comfort that you were with him at the end, and that you were able to share some special moments with him. I really know that no words can take any pain away, I just hope that we all feel, in time to come, some comfort from knowing we were there.


Take care


Leila xx

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  • 1 month later...

YES, good kind relplies, my guy has chest infection, on his knees crawling, have to get him i hospital, he thinks hell die, awful, but doing the deed in moening, have too, good luck everyone of you xxx

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