Bryansie Posted September 14, 2015 Author Posted September 14, 2015 Good Morning to each and everyone of you,I have not been on here for so long, 2 days after my last visit to see my beautiful brother I got a call to say he did not have long, I rushed to London and spent his final 5 days with him, every minute was a blessing, some sad, some funny, we kissed, we laughed, we cried, we held each other tight, I watched my brother slowly leave this earth. My heart is broken but he is out of pain. No wordsatthis moment in time can make me feel better, I struggle each day, remembering the call I got 11 weeks earlier from him telling me that after having 2 weeks of stomach pain he was told he had inoperable pancreatic cancer, what a shock, Life is so so cruel, I have to tell myself everyday he was such a loving, caring, sweet, thoughtful person that he was needed else where. His Funeral was an amazing day, I am so proud of his partner, she gave him a lovely send off along with the 400 people that came to say goodbye. I stood up to read a poem and was lost for words when I looked around the room to see so many people there.I send my love to all of you that have or are going through what I went through.For you lovely lovely people who have limited time here, My thoughts and prayers are with you.XXXXXXSueIN LOVING MEMORY OF A BEAUTIFUL MAN/PARTNER/BROTHER/FATHER AND FRIENDMICHAEL JOHN LIMERICK11/6/1959 TO 27/7/2015 R.I.P
Bryansie Posted September 14, 2015 Author Posted September 14, 2015 My brother never got to see his new home, let alone live in it, I truly believe he did not want to go there as it would have made it harder for his partner, having him there for a few weeks and then he passed away.Life is very strangeand stranger things happen/don't happen for a reason.XXXXXXXXXXXXX
Sueoliver Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 I am so sorry to hear your news. I can feel your pain and heartbreak. I am glad the funeral was amazing and so many people attended.Thinking of you and take care of yourself.Love Sue xxx
sandraW Posted September 14, 2015 Posted September 14, 2015 Hi Sue,Life sure is very strange, I am so sorry you have lost your lovely brother Michael, this disease is so very cruel. In your case it was so swift, you can't have had a chance to take it all in yet. It will also be strange for his wife moving into a new place so soon without him.It was lovely that you could spend those last days with him. take care sandrax xx
PCUK Nurse Rachel C Posted September 15, 2015 Posted September 15, 2015 Dear Sue,I am so sorry to hear this sad news. On behalf of everyone at Pancreatic Cancer UK, I would like to offer our heartfelt condolences. Our thoughts are with you and your family during this difficult time.From all of the Support Team,RachelPancreatic Cancer Nurse Specialist.
J_T Posted September 15, 2015 Posted September 15, 2015 So sorry to hear your sad news. My heartfelt condolences.Julia x
Guest Posted September 18, 2015 Posted September 18, 2015 Hi Sue,I wanted to say so sorry for loss of your lovely brother. A beautiful tribute you wrote about him. I hope you take comfort that you were with him at the end, and that you were able to share some special moments with him. I really know that no words can take any pain away, I just hope that we all feel, in time to come, some comfort from knowing we were there.Take careLeila xx
dellas Posted November 2, 2015 Posted November 2, 2015 YES, good kind relplies, my guy has chest infection, on his knees crawling, have to get him i hospital, he thinks hell die, awful, but doing the deed in moening, have too, good luck everyone of you xxx
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