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jay
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Re: My world has been turned upside down

Postby jay » Wed Jun 24, 2015 1:50 pm

I am so sorry Nat,
love Jayne
x

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Re: My world has been turned upside down

Postby kittycat » Wed Jun 24, 2015 4:08 pm

Nat, so sorry for your loss. This really is a dreadful disease!

Sue

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Re: My world has been turned upside down

Postby Slewis7313 » Wed Jun 24, 2015 8:09 pm

Nat, so very sorry to hear your Mum has succumbed to this damned thing.

Steve
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Re: My world has been turned upside down

Postby EmmaR » Wed Jun 24, 2015 8:54 pm

Rip Nat's mum xx

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Re: My world has been turned upside down

Postby Sueoliver » Wed Jun 24, 2015 10:35 pm

I am so sorry to read about your Mum. This makes me so sad as my Mum is fighting so hard at the moment! Take care and look after yourself as well. Xxx

PCUK Nurse Jeni
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Re: My world has been turned upside down

Postby PCUK Nurse Jeni » Thu Jun 25, 2015 9:39 am

Dear Nat,

We are so sorry top hear about your mum.

We would like to extend our sympathies, as a nursing team, to you and your family, and also to say, we are still here for you if you wish to speak to anyone.

Kind regards,
Jeni,
Support & Information Team.

RLF
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Re: My world has been turned upside down

Postby RLF » Thu Jun 25, 2015 1:13 pm

Sorry for your loss Nat, im glad you were able to be there for her as she passed away. Big hugs x

natty1976
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Re: My world has been turned upside down

Postby natty1976 » Thu Jul 09, 2015 9:59 pm

Thank you for your kind words 2.5 weeks on since mum left us and it still hasn't hit us all I can say is the horrible world of pancreatic cancer is fading and them awful weeks are slowly fading as mum's beauty and love for life is taking over. I have no regrets I am blessed we had mum home with us where she needed to be. Take care everyone xx

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Re: My world has been turned upside down

Postby sandraW » Fri Jul 10, 2015 10:18 am

Hi Natty,

I am glad you are doing ok, and that the bad memories are fading and you are remembering your Mum as she really was, and not the poorly Mum.
Its 11 weeks since I lost Trevor, when I think of him I do so with a smile, I can of course remember the short time he was in hospital/hospice at the end but just put that out of my mind and remember him laughing smiling and enjoying life, as he did.
Sending love to you all and stay strong but don't be afraid to have a good cry, I do, when something I see or hear brings back memories, but they are sad/happy tears if you understand what I mean take care sandrax

natty1976
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Re: My world has been turned upside down

Postby natty1976 » Sat Jul 11, 2015 7:27 am

Thank you Sandra

I understand exactly what you mean by the sad and happy tears. I do feel cheated and so sad that my children especially my 5 year old will not have mum around. I think I prepared for this as I was doing too well, the last two days have been awful but that could be to do with the funeral coming up on Tuesday I am hoping to speak. It's just so sad so many of us have gone or going through this.

I know it's early stages for me and my emotions are all over the place, 11 weeks is still no time for you too.



Lots of love Nat x