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Re: frustrated

Posted: Wed Apr 06, 2016 11:10 am
by Fifi
Oh Sheena,

I am sorry for what is happening, such horrible times. Steve sounds such a wonderfully brave man.

Leila xx

Re: frustrated

Posted: Wed Apr 06, 2016 11:21 am
by PCUK Nurse Jeni
Sheena,

Sorry for the hard times you are experiencing and Steve having his "last look around" as you say.

Flower of Scotland on bagpipes - there won't be a dry eye in the place, such a fitting tribute to Steve.

Take care Sheena,
Jeni,

PC Specialist Nurse.

Re: frustrated

Posted: Fri Apr 08, 2016 8:49 pm
by sheena
My 3rd night at hospice Steve is now calmly sleeping no pain all under control just waiting for his time.Have said some beautiful things over last few days but last night he was in a party mood being very cheeky planning his b day for the 21st April.had a coffee with whisky in and that I am afraid is his last fling.Dr saying anytime Steve saying not yet.So blessed he is in a comfy bed sleeping like a baby a perfect way .my next message will be our last one of a married couple sending u all hugs and t y u r all amazing x

Re: frustrated

Posted: Fri Apr 08, 2016 8:58 pm
by Fifi
Sheena,

What a beautiful post. Steve sounds a truly wonderful amazing husband. Your love for each other is evident, a lovely couple. He will always be with Sheena.

Leila xx

Re: frustrated

Posted: Fri Apr 08, 2016 9:50 pm
by sandraW
Sheena, you brave lady, as Leila say what a beautiful post, I'm glad you are feeling as you are, you are amazing, just glad we have been of help, sending love to you all sandrax xx

Re: frustrated

Posted: Sat Apr 09, 2016 11:24 am
by Didge
Thinking of you, Sheena. Glad Steve is comfortable and that he is still getting 'party moods'! He will leave when he is ready, not before.
Didge xx

Re: frustrated

Posted: Sat Apr 09, 2016 12:00 pm
by Proud Wife
Sheena, you are one very brave, special lady! Your last post brought tears to my eyes. I am so pleased to hear Steve's comfortable in the hospice.

What an amazingly special place this forum is when we can all talk about passing, without fear of upsetting anyone.

Take care
PW xx

Re: frustrated

Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2016 11:29 am
by PCUK Nurse Jeni
Thinking of you and Steve Sheena.

Great that you are getting some lovely precious times together.

From Jeni and all the nurses.
Support Team.

Re: frustrated

Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2016 3:10 pm
by jay
Sending you a massive hug Sheena
love Jayne
xxx

Re: frustrated

Posted: Mon Apr 11, 2016 11:57 pm
by shelda
Sheena and Steve
Sending you the biggest of hugs, so so brave at the worst time ever. I'm in absolute awe of every single person on here. Hope your last few days together have been full of love and precious memories xxx Shel xxx

Re: frustrated

Posted: Tue Apr 12, 2016 10:22 am
by sheena
Well my friends I have been at the hospice since Wednesday and I am still here.Steve doesn't want to pass yet ,Dr has been twice and really don't no why or how he is holding on .I guess he was always stubborn and would like to think he is having a nose around before he decides the best place.

Re: frustrated

Posted: Tue Apr 12, 2016 12:51 pm
by Didge
There is no predicting these things. Sending you lots of love xx

Re: frustrated

Posted: Tue Apr 12, 2016 4:03 pm
by Proud Wife
I hope you are comfortable at the hospice Sheena? Your Steve is such a strong brave man. And so are you Sheena. Thinking of you both xx

Re: frustrated

Posted: Tue Apr 12, 2016 4:05 pm
by Linda G
Hi Sheena, my thoughts are with you both at this time. My husband Stewart was in the hospice for the last 3 weeks of his life. He went to sleep with the morphine for 12 days before he let go. We all wondered how or why he was holding on! I came to the conclusion it would be when he was ready and not when I, his family or the doctors said it was ok. I wish you both peace and strength.
Linda G
XXXXX

Re: frustrated

Posted: Tue Apr 12, 2016 9:06 pm
by Sueoliver
Hi Sheena,
Mum was in the hospice for 4 weeks I don't think she was ever ready!
I have been thinking of you.
Stay strong.
Love Sue xxx