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Re: Mum's battle

Posted: Mon Jul 20, 2015 11:47 am
by bevstar
Thankyou all for your kind words. Mum is very much the same still in the hospital, her only wish is she wants come home. Hopefully today things can be sorted out with palliative care team. I am thinking of you all in the same situation fighting this dreadful disease.
take care
love Bev x

Re: Mum's battle

Posted: Tue Jul 21, 2015 7:31 am
by Sueoliver
Hi Bev,
Just to let you know I'm thinking of you. I hope you get your Mum home.
Sue x

Re: Mum's battle

Posted: Sun Aug 02, 2015 10:35 am
by bevstar
Mum spent 5 day's in the hospital and came home. Things were ok for a few days but had to go back in last Tuesday. She had another camera procedure to see what was happening and the tumour has come through the bowel wall. It is bleeding a lot and can't be stopped. She lost a lot of blood so had blood transfusion so she could come home. Mum is at home now and we have a team of carers and nurses looking after her. The doctor has said it will only be a few days as each day passes she gets really weak and sleeping a lot. My mum has battled this awful cancer since last April but so sad it has caught up with her.
Thinking of you all
Love Bev x

Re: Mum's battle

Posted: Sun Aug 02, 2015 11:24 am
by kittycat
Bev, so sorry your Mum is so poorly but at least she's home with her family around her and getting the care she needs. It must be very difficult for you but you're doing everything you can. Take care.

Sue

Re: Mum's battle

Posted: Sun Aug 02, 2015 12:58 pm
by sandraW
Hi Bev,
Sorry to hear that your lovely mum is so poorly, this disease is relentless, and so cruel. I am glad your mum is getting good care, and as Sue says at least she is at home, which is something I couldn't manage for Trevor.
I hope she just drifts away as Trevor did and that you can all be with her as she passes, thinking of you all love sandrax xx

Re: Mum's battle

Posted: Sun Aug 02, 2015 10:05 pm
by Didge
My thoughts are with you and your mum at this time x

Re: Mum's battle

Posted: Tue Aug 04, 2015 9:42 pm
by Sueoliver
Hi Bev,
How is your Mum? Thinking of you.
Love Sue x

Re: Mum's battle

Posted: Wed Aug 05, 2015 10:37 am
by bevstar
Today mum is very tired she is feeling sick and cold. The doctor is on his way when she is part awake she is uncomfortable and very thirsty. Today is dad's birthday he passed away 4 years again mum mentioned it early morning. I'm thinking has she been waiting for today. I just want here to be peaceful.
Thinking of you all
Love Bev x

Re: Mum's battle

Posted: Wed Aug 05, 2015 12:08 pm
by kittycat
So sorry about your Mum, it must be very difficult. Thinking about you.

Sue

Re: Mum's battle

Posted: Tue Aug 11, 2015 9:41 pm
by bevstar
Today mum lost her battle against this relentless disease. She was at home and was peaceful. From her diagnosis 16 months ago she has been a fighter staying positive all the time. She declined chemo and managed with pain relief. I have found this forum invaluable and knew nothing about pc at the beging of mum's journey but know lots now. I have lost my mum and best friend I can't express how much it hurt.
Thank you and stay positive
Love Bev x

Re: Mum's battle

Posted: Tue Aug 11, 2015 9:50 pm
by sheena
So sorry for your loss ,take care xx

Re: Mum's battle

Posted: Tue Aug 11, 2015 9:52 pm
by Sueoliver
Dear Bev,
I am so sorry there are no words. I really feel for you and I understand how you feel. This disease is evil and your Mum was amazing in her fight against it. Stay strong and look after yourself.
Love Sue xxx

Re: Mum's battle

Posted: Wed Aug 12, 2015 12:00 am
by sandraW
Bev,
I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your lovely Mum. It is so hard but I am glad it was a peaceful at the end.
I now you can't yet believe she has gone but you can be proud of all the support you gave her on her brave journey. This disease is truly relentless. sending a big cyber ((hug)) take care sandrax x

Re: Mum's battle

Posted: Wed Aug 12, 2015 8:16 am
by WilliamS
So sorry for your loss.

Re: Mum's battle

Posted: Thu Aug 13, 2015 9:55 am
by RLF
I'm sorry for your loss Bev
Rob
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