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My perfect mum

Postby Vanhalen » Sun Oct 30, 2011 10:42 pm

Dear everyone

My precious mum had her wishes granted earlier today, at 2pm and found peace.
She passed away after suffering for too long.
She was and is the most perfect mother ever.
She put up with so much and went through with everything that was asked of her.

She was so strong, even though she would question this.

Of course there's so much more.

I must add that the hospice nurses and doctors were superb. They did everything they could to make mum comfortable.

My thoughts are with everyone on this site going through the same problems.



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Re: My perfect mum

Postby rachelqt » Mon Oct 31, 2011 8:56 am

Hi Rich,

Im so very sorry to hear about your mum. Im sure it was a hard road for you all. When our loved ones are suffering you do take comfort that their pain is gone and they are at peace. I truely believe there is so much more. Thoughts and paryers are with you.

Take care Rachel x

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Re: My perfect mum

Postby AnneD » Mon Oct 31, 2011 2:43 pm

Dear Rich,
I'm so sorry to hear the sad news about your mum,
but glad that she is now at peace and that the
doctors and nurses from the hospice were so wonderful.
Sincere condolences,

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Re: My perfect mum

Postby lynbo » Mon Oct 31, 2011 4:33 pm

Dear Rich
I'm sorry to hear about your mum, my thoughts and prayers are with you

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Re: My perfect mum

Postby ali » Mon Oct 31, 2011 6:57 pm

thinking of you but she really is at peace
i lost my mum in june
she really only felt really unwell since april
so was at advanced stage when diagnosed and only had twelve days in hospital and four nights at home before she fell asleep forever
she had had a healthy life and no chronic illnesses--thankfully
she was 79--in fact this week last year her and i had a lovely relaxing week in Tenerife
only put her ashes in grave with my dad's ashes on Thursday past
has been such a hard time
this disease is TRUELY awful for everyone
so many people have joined this site since i did--many with similar stories
saying that---- i am also glad for mum she is not sitting somewhere following a severe Stroke (she would have hated that )

take care
Helen xxxx

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Re: My perfect mum

Postby millyjo » Tue Nov 01, 2011 8:11 am

Dear Rich,
Please accept my most sincerest condolanences.
My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Love and hugs

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Re: My perfect mum

Postby laura » Wed Nov 02, 2011 8:16 am

thinking of you, so glad that there are some positives you can remember just now,such a sad time for you and yours,a big hug <<<<< >>>>> x laura