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AnneD
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Re: My husband has just been diagnosed...

Postby AnneD » Wed Apr 20, 2011 10:35 pm

Sincere condolences.
Thinking of you at this sad time.
Anne

margb5343
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Re: My husband has just been diagnosed...

Postby margb5343 » Fri Apr 22, 2011 7:05 pm

Hi Nia

I have just read your post and just feel so saddenened to hear about Kevin. I know exactly what you are going through, I lost my mum aged 64 at the end of Jan. Mine and my dads life has just been turned upside down. This just has to be the worst type of cancer to have in the speed it progresses at the end. My mum was eight weeks from diagnosis with a brain tumour, then four weeks later found out she had pancreatic, then four weeks after that she sadly passed away. i am still thinking and you will be, why us. I find it hard when people, neighbours etc are just carrying on with their normal lives, i feel like shouting and saying do you not know what i am going through, i just want to cry all the time. Life will never be the same for us and im sure yourself. The only consolation i have is i know my mum wouldn't want me to be upset all the time. I wished i had found this site before we lost my mum as i think it would have helped us all tremendously. I know its hard but you need to make sure you look after yourself now.

Once again you are in my thoughts, take care
luv margaret xxx

DRAD3
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Re: My husband has just been diagnosed...

Postby DRAD3 » Sat Apr 23, 2011 10:56 am

Dear Nia
So very sorry to hear of your loss. My heart goes out to you and I am thinking of you and your family.
With lots of love
Deb

Ellie
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Re: My husband has just been diagnosed...

Postby Ellie » Sun Apr 24, 2011 7:13 pm

Dear Nia

Just wanted to let you know I am thinking of you. It must be an awful time for you right now.

I hope that everything goes as well as it can on Tuesday.

With best wishes

Ellie
x

DRAD3
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Re: My husband has just been diagnosed...

Postby DRAD3 » Tue Apr 26, 2011 2:54 pm

Thinking of you and your family today.
With love
Deb

lawalsh
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Re: My husband has just been diagnosed...

Postby lawalsh » Wed Apr 27, 2011 11:18 pm

Dear Nia,

I can't imagine how you must be feeling, I am so terribly sorry for you. keep in touch with everyone, people are so kind on this forum.

Sending you a big hug, stay strong xxx

deb68
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Re: My husband has just been diagnosed...

Postby deb68 » Mon May 02, 2011 9:02 pm

Dear Nia

Many condolences on your loss - I lost my daughter last year at only 27 years old and I know how devastating it all is. Please know that everyone on this site is so supportive and will be here for you.

With love

Debbie.xxx

millyjo
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Re: My husband has just been diagnosed...

Postby millyjo » Sat May 07, 2011 11:00 am

Dear Nia,

Please accept my condolences at your sad loss.
My thoughts are with you and your family.

Regards
Millyjo

NiaD
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Re: My husband has just been diagnosed...

Postby NiaD » Sat Jan 14, 2012 11:14 pm

I came back to this site last night. I've just reread my posts and am in tears. It's nine months now since I lost Kevin to PC. Thank you all for your lovely comments, I feel less alone whilst reading them. I have family around me but feel so very lonely. I am going to start more counselling with Cruse on Monday. Life is no life at all without him...

lynbo
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Re: My husband has just been diagnosed...

Postby lynbo » Mon Jan 16, 2012 2:58 pm

Dear Nia

I know how you feel, I hope the counselling with ease things a little?
You can only try eh?
I sometimes read my old posts and they seem like someone else has written them?
Its all a bit surreal at times xxxxx

PCUK Nurse Jeni
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Re: My husband has just been diagnosed...

Postby PCUK Nurse Jeni » Mon Jan 16, 2012 5:16 pm

Hi Nia,

Sorry to hear that you are going through this lonely period.

Please do email us at support@pancreaticcacner.org.uk if you feel we may be able to help you.

Kind regards,

Jeni.