bevstar Posted May 4, 2015 Share Posted May 4, 2015 I haven't posted for over 12 months but have read the posts almost daily. Mum was diagnosed last April with inoperable pc a tumour at the head of the pancreas. She had a stent fitted and decided not to have chemo. The stent helped with jaundice but her appetite slowly declined she has lost 3 stone. Mum is 83 this year and has been doing really well she has had good days as well as bad. This last few weeks she has had stomach pain and back pain so had a scan last week the results came back the cancer has spread to her liver and lungs. She is on morphine now to help with pain but has been sick and dizzy. Mum is a very positive person I am sure that has helped her on this journey she will carry on fighting it.Bev x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sueoliver Posted May 6, 2015 Share Posted May 6, 2015 Hi Bev,My mum was diagnosed last May and is also very positive and a fighter! My Mum did have chemo but has had a break for last 3 months , she actually has an oncology appointment this afternoon. Your Mum has been amazing and sounds like she has truly fought this wicked disease! I am so sorry to hear it has now spread but hopefully she will stay positive and keep fighting.The only thing we can do is be there for them and be supportive. I have good and bad days as well as I am sure you do too! Stay strong,Love Sue x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leedslass82 Posted May 6, 2015 Share Posted May 6, 2015 Hi Bev and Sue, So sorry to hear of both of your mum's diagnosis'. Mine is exactly the same. She had the whole pancreas removed in April 2014 with lots of complications and now she has a recurrence where the pancreas was. She is also on Morphine (tablets twice a day and the liquid stuff every 2 hours). We also have her oncology appointment tomorrow to decide what other treatment she has. She said no to chemo at first as the last lot made her really ill so only had one session (on the advice of her oncologist). My mum was only 60 last month so it is a really big shock for us all. Good luck with your appointment Sue and let's keep the positive thoughts flowing for all of our mums. Love Becky x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bevstar Posted May 6, 2015 Author Share Posted May 6, 2015 Hi Sue and BeckyGood luck with both mum's appointments. Mum's having a bad day today she feels really down. I think it's the first time she has said that. I will call the doctor if she feels the same tomorrow.Thankyou for your support its a great help knowing we are not alone.Love Bev x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rsk1974 Posted May 6, 2015 Share Posted May 6, 2015 Hi BeV, sorry to hear your mums cancer has spread, being positive has got to help, it's so hard when the people you live have down days. Hope you are ok too rachel Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bowie Posted May 6, 2015 Share Posted May 6, 2015 Bev, sorry your mum's news isn't better, but she has done so well without any treatment and to stay positive with this most devastating of dieases. I hope she feels better tomorrow.Sue and Becky I hope your mums' appointment go well. Fiona X Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sueoliver Posted May 7, 2015 Share Posted May 7, 2015 I hope all the Mums are feeling a bit better today! The oncologist was very pleased with mine and she doesn't have to go back until June when she will have a scan and see what the Cancer is up to! Worrying but she is happy! Sue x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bevstar Posted May 12, 2015 Author Share Posted May 12, 2015 Mum has continued to feel down this last few days. She has not eaten very much. Her stomach is swollen and she seems to have a lot of wind and is nausea. I called the doctor out and she gave her some anti sickness tablets and some mintec to help get rid of wind. I only live a mile from mum but I am staying at her house as she lives alone with her two little dogs. I've not seen mum look so bad this awful disease is basically making her starve to death I hate it!!! I hope all other mum's are having a better day.Love Bev x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sandraW Posted May 12, 2015 Share Posted May 12, 2015 Hi Bev,Sorry to hear your Mum is not doing too well, this is such a terrible disease. Just to let you know I am thinking of you both, kind regards sandrax Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tara1979 Posted May 13, 2015 Share Posted May 13, 2015 Hello all Your mum's all sound truly amazing stay strong and take care of your self's . Bev do you have support from your local hospice they were brilliant for support and advice for my mum they made most of the decisions re pain relief and they also had dietitians for advice and support .Tara x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bevstar Posted July 18, 2015 Author Share Posted July 18, 2015 Mum is now in hospital, she had an awful week of pain and sickness. She was vomiting black and then changed to red. She had a procedure to stop the bleeding they found she had an ulcer very close to her bowel. Mum lost a lot of blood and had 3 transfusions. She is very weak and has lost loads of weight. She wants to come home but at the moment doctor is trying to get everything under control. Mum has battled on for 18 months and won't give up without a fight. This is a sad time trying my hardest to stay positive and not get upset in front of her.Love Bev x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
allyc1 Posted July 19, 2015 Share Posted July 19, 2015 Its awful to watch your parents like this, i am the same with my dad, he was once this big strong man and now he is just so weak and frail. You do have to take one day at a time and try to remain positive, its hard but i find you do get stronger. Take Care x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LMD Posted July 19, 2015 Share Posted July 19, 2015 Sorry to hear your mum has had an awful week...hope the medical team can get the pain and sickness under control very soon.You and your mum are in my thoughts, stay strong xxx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sandraW Posted July 19, 2015 Share Posted July 19, 2015 Hi Bev,Sorry to hear you mum is not doing too well at the moment, just to let you know I am thinking of you and I hope there is some improvement soon, take care sandrax xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kittycat Posted July 20, 2015 Share Posted July 20, 2015 Hi bev, hoping your mum improves soon, my thoughts are with you.Sue Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bevstar Posted July 20, 2015 Author Share Posted July 20, 2015 Thankyou all for your kind words. Mum is very much the same still in the hospital, her only wish is she wants come home. Hopefully today things can be sorted out with palliative care team. I am thinking of you all in the same situation fighting this dreadful disease.take carelove Bev x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sueoliver Posted July 21, 2015 Share Posted July 21, 2015 Hi Bev,Just to let you know I'm thinking of you. I hope you get your Mum home. Sue x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bevstar Posted August 2, 2015 Author Share Posted August 2, 2015 Mum spent 5 day's in the hospital and came home. Things were ok for a few days but had to go back in last Tuesday. She had another camera procedure to see what was happening and the tumour has come through the bowel wall. It is bleeding a lot and can't be stopped. She lost a lot of blood so had blood transfusion so she could come home. Mum is at home now and we have a team of carers and nurses looking after her. The doctor has said it will only be a few days as each day passes she gets really weak and sleeping a lot. My mum has battled this awful cancer since last April but so sad it has caught up with her.Thinking of you allLove Bev x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kittycat Posted August 2, 2015 Share Posted August 2, 2015 Bev, so sorry your Mum is so poorly but at least she's home with her family around her and getting the care she needs. It must be very difficult for you but you're doing everything you can. Take care.Sue Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sandraW Posted August 2, 2015 Share Posted August 2, 2015 Hi Bev,Sorry to hear that your lovely mum is so poorly, this disease is relentless, and so cruel. I am glad your mum is getting good care, and as Sue says at least she is at home, which is something I couldn't manage for Trevor. I hope she just drifts away as Trevor did and that you can all be with her as she passes, thinking of you all love sandrax xx Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Didge Posted August 2, 2015 Share Posted August 2, 2015 My thoughts are with you and your mum at this time x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sueoliver Posted August 4, 2015 Share Posted August 4, 2015 Hi Bev,How is your Mum? Thinking of you.Love Sue x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bevstar Posted August 5, 2015 Author Share Posted August 5, 2015 Today mum is very tired she is feeling sick and cold. The doctor is on his way when she is part awake she is uncomfortable and very thirsty. Today is dad's birthday he passed away 4 years again mum mentioned it early morning. I'm thinking has she been waiting for today. I just want here to be peaceful.Thinking of you allLove Bev x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kittycat Posted August 5, 2015 Share Posted August 5, 2015 So sorry about your Mum, it must be very difficult. Thinking about you. Sue Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bevstar Posted August 11, 2015 Author Share Posted August 11, 2015 Today mum lost her battle against this relentless disease. She was at home and was peaceful. From her diagnosis 16 months ago she has been a fighter staying positive all the time. She declined chemo and managed with pain relief. I have found this forum invaluable and knew nothing about pc at the beging of mum's journey but know lots now. I have lost my mum and best friend I can't express how much it hurt.Thank you and stay positiveLove Bev x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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