Guest Posted August 7, 2015 Posted August 7, 2015 Sue, Sorry to read about your Mum. Nwhen I read she had a fall, I did wonder. It is all so very devastating. If having this horrible cancer isn't enough, that life adds more cruelty. Poor Dad broke 3 lumbar bones. I feel so sorry for him. It breaks my heart to think of what happened.Hope your Mum feels a little better tomorrow and that they have given her something for the pain. Leila xxx
andreamartinez Posted August 8, 2015 Posted August 8, 2015 I can really understand how your mum feel, that's terrible pain, from having cancer and now she's in pelvic pain.
kittycat Posted August 8, 2015 Posted August 8, 2015 So sorry it wasn't better news. Hope they get the pain sorted soon.Sue
HollyLouise Posted August 11, 2015 Posted August 11, 2015 Hi Sue, I remember reading your forum a few weeks ago when my Nan was diagnosed with this awful disease and it is so lovely to hear that your Mum is not too far away from getting to the wedding. She must be a very strong lady. Can't wait to log on and read that she loved the wedding, my prayers and thoughts are with you both x
Sueoliver Posted August 16, 2015 Author Posted August 16, 2015 It never rains but it pours! Yesterday my stepfather had a nasty fall, he is my mum's carer! He was walking back from getting his paper and tripped. He dislocated his fingers and tore the tendons. I took him to A and E and we were referred to another hospital. This all happened at 10 a.m and we got home at 6.30p.m . They managed to stitch 2 fingers but he has to have surgery on the other one! What a day! Now he can't drive! I really just felt like crying! My Mum saw the oncologist last week and he can't treat her while she is in pain from her fall! He is arranging a. CT scan. She can't really do anything now and she has a wheel chair!Sometimes life is trying to say the least! Love to everyone. Sue xxx
kittycat Posted August 16, 2015 Posted August 16, 2015 Oh sue, that's awful! I know what you mean about one thing after another but try to stay strong if you can and surely things will improve soon. This is truly a dreadful disease.Sue
Slewis7313 Posted August 16, 2015 Posted August 16, 2015 Life certainly is kicking you when you are down Sue. I hope your Step Father is ok again soon and that a bit of overdue good luck comes your way soon.Take care SteveX
Sueoliver Posted August 17, 2015 Author Posted August 17, 2015 Thankyou for your support. He had the operation today and it went well the tendons are now repaired. I have told them both they have to be very careful until the wedding. All I have to do now is arrange the transport for them to the wedding. I pray nothing else happens! I am drained! Love Sue xxx
Sueoliver Posted August 22, 2015 Author Posted August 22, 2015 One week to go and it's looking like Mum will make the wedding. Fingers crossed! Xxx
Slewis7313 Posted August 22, 2015 Posted August 22, 2015 You need to build yourself up for the Wedding Sue. Good to see that everyone looks to be present.Please take care.SteveX
Guest Posted August 23, 2015 Posted August 23, 2015 Great news Sue.How is your Mum's hip? Have a great wedding, what wonderful memories you'll make. Leila xxx
WilliamS Posted August 27, 2015 Posted August 27, 2015 Only a couple of days until the wedding. Hope you all have a lovely day.
Sueoliver Posted August 27, 2015 Author Posted August 27, 2015 Thanks everyone just hope the sun is shining! Mum is excited and I'm happy for her . Xxx
kittycat Posted August 28, 2015 Posted August 28, 2015 Enjoy your day and I hope the sun shines for you too.Sue
RLF Posted August 29, 2015 Posted August 29, 2015 Happy wedding day! (If I counted correctly). Hope it all goes without a hitch and im so happy your mum is able to be there and see it. Big congrats to all x
sandraW Posted August 29, 2015 Posted August 29, 2015 Hi Sue,I hope your daughter had a beautiful wedding day and that you all enjoyed it especially your mum, what a fighter she is. Congratulations to you all and I hope the Happy Couple have a blessed marriage. love sandrax xx
SusannaUK Posted August 30, 2015 Posted August 30, 2015 Dear Sue,I've just read your posts, I haven't been on the forum for a while.I'm so glad to read that your Mum was able to be there on your daughter's wedding! I hope you had a beautiful day yesterday!What a fighter she is!Congratulations to you all!Susanna xxx
Sueoliver Posted August 31, 2015 Author Posted August 31, 2015 Thankyou everyone what a wonderful day we all had. Mum arrived at 11a.m and stayed until 9.30p.m! She loved every minute and said she wished it would never end! We have some wonderful photos and memories now. I have never seen her eat and drink so much! Strawberry pimms was going down well! If anyone is on Facebook and would like to add me please ask the moderators for my e mail! I feel I have travelled this journey with you all and there are lots of wedding photos on there. Now for a reality check as Mum has a CT scan on Saturday not sure what that is going to show! I have a feeling the next few weeks will be hard! Love to all of you and once again thankyou for the continued support.. Sue xxx
Didge Posted August 31, 2015 Posted August 31, 2015 Oh how wonderful! I remember when you first said your mum's goal was to be at the wedding, I never really thought she would make it. But she did! I will ask for your email as I would love to see the pics on Facebook. x
HollyLouise Posted August 31, 2015 Posted August 31, 2015 It warms my heart to see that your Mum has made it, Sue! I'm so glad to hear and glad that she had a nice time, too. I understand that in these dark times the good times are to be cherished; best of luck for what the near future may bring x
ElsieG Posted August 31, 2015 Posted August 31, 2015 Sue, your Mum is an inspiration to all. What a wonderful lady. I am new to all this but take heart from hearing stories such as that of your Mum. God Bless & hope all goes well for the C T scan. X
jay Posted September 3, 2015 Posted September 3, 2015 So pleased you had a wonderful day Sue, will e mail jenni, would love to see the wedding photos,love Jaynexxx
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