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Janiebobs
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My lovely Dad has passed away

Postby Janiebobs » Sun Jan 26, 2014 10:27 pm

I have been reading the extremely informative forum avidly for a couple of weeks now. My 83 year old Dad had been diagnosed with diabetes in the summer. He was told to control it with diet and he seem to be doing well. However at Christmas my parents were coming to stay with my family. I noticed how jaundiced my dad appeared and he had lost lots of weight. I took him to my local walk-in centre and they sent him straight to hospital. He had a CT scan and was released on Christmas Eve. I took him home after Christmas and we saw his GP who talked about cancer and referred him to a couple of consultants. The Gastroenterologist stated it was advanced PC and as it had spread to his intestines and his kidneys. He also said Chemo wasn't recommended as it would give him a couple more week and possibly give him very bad side effects. My dad asked for a second opinion and he is seeing a oncologist on Tuesday. My brother who took him to the appointment asked if Dad could have stent and the following week he had stent fitted by ERCP and they took a biopsy. We get the results on Tuesday and also we see the urologist for the results of a second scan of his kidney to see if it is a tumour or a cyst
The stent was fitted two weeks ago but I feel he is still quite jaundiced and worry that the stent may have slipped. Dad still has appetite but his diet is quite limited and has been taking chlorphenamine, unsodeoxycholic acid and a laxative as he is quite constipated. As you can imagine we are all in shock as we get our heads around this devastating disease.
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J_T
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Re: My lovely Dad

Postby J_T » Sun Jan 26, 2014 11:47 pm

Hi Janie and welcome to the forum.

So sorry to hear about your dad. Must have come as a very great shock to you all. I would have thought a stent would have been the first thing on the agenda without any prompting from your family! Does your dad have the awful itching associated with jaundice? We found Questran the best for tackling that. Take a couple of weeks or more for the bilirubin levels to drop and the yellowness to disappear.

Good luck with your next appointment.

Julia

Janiebobs
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Re: My lovely Dad

Postby Janiebobs » Mon Jan 27, 2014 9:50 am

Thank you Julia for you encouraging words. Dad is also on Creon4000 to help enzymes will post back when we get some further information
Jane

Cathy
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Re: My lovely Dad

Postby Cathy » Mon Jan 27, 2014 11:44 am

Hi Jane

Best of luck with those appointments. If your Dad feels well enough he may find that chemotherapy is very beneficial in controlling side effects. Not all chemotherapy gives bad side effects - gemcitabine is the standard chemotherapy for PC and often fairly easily tolerated.

See what the oncologist thinks...

Cathy xx

Janiebobs
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Re: My lovely Dad

Postby Janiebobs » Mon Jan 27, 2014 5:37 pm

Hi Cathy
Thank you for the advice about gemcitabine I will ask tomorrow!
Jane

cestrian
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Re: My lovely Dad

Postby cestrian » Mon Jan 27, 2014 5:42 pm

Hi Jane

Agree with Cathy that Gemcitabine generally has limited side effects and could be worth a try. I've been lucky and had no side effects to speak of. I think it is routine for patients to be given an IV dose for anti-nausea prior to each delivery of chemo.

Good luck to your Dad and all your family in coping with his illness.

Love and Peace

Mike

Janiebobs
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Re: My lovely Dad

Postby Janiebobs » Thu Jan 30, 2014 7:18 am

Hi
Dad went for his consultants meetings on Tuesday. The oncologist said the brushing (biopsy) they did with the ERCP came back negative but he said he and other colleagues were in no doubt that it was PC. He offered Dad another biopsy which could be done by endoscope or by going through Dad's back but he didn't advise it as Dad has become so frail. Also as Dad lives in Cumbria they would take place in Newcastle upon Tyne which is 100 miles from their home. Dad's most recent blood tests showed that his jaundice was falling and he thought it might take a couple more weeks. As Dad has never itched he took Dad off the chlorphenamine. They talked about the possibility of Chemo dad was abit concerned after reading a recent New Scientist article but the oncologist was able to reduce his fears. As Cathy and Mike suggested the oncologist recommended gemcitabine talking about its lack of side effects. But said dad's jaundice would have to be clear and Dad needs to build himself up as he has lost so much weight. Dad who is also diabetic (type2) had been told to avoid fat but the oncologist (and the McMillan nurse previously) said to eat what he fancies and the oncologist said if it's a rich meal to take two of his creon4000.
The oncologist said he doesn't advise chemo as currently my dad is in no pain and although the tumour is advanced it is local (hasn't spread) but he said to dad if he did wait until it became painful it might be too late to have chemo. So we have an appointment in 4 weeks dad has to make his mind up. He also made sure dad knew what to do if he became jaundice again - contact directly the dr who fitted the stent!
Then we went to see the urologist who said the scan showed it might be another cancer on his kidney it would be a primary but said the PC was most important. Dad told him he had been getting up 5 times in the night to go to the loo. So dad had to drink a jug of water and they measured his flow and examined his bladder after urinating. The urologist stated the excess bile may irritating his bladder. He gave him some tablets to try and reduce the need to go.
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J_T
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Re: My lovely Dad

Postby J_T » Thu Jan 30, 2014 9:03 am

Hi, I'm in Cumbria too and Ray went to Blackburn for stent surgery and XX for chemotherapy. Your onc is disagreeing with the gastroenterologist then and saying the kidney lesion is not spread from the pancreas? What about the intestines problem? Sounds like your dad's cancer has metastisised but what do I know? Four weeks seems a long time to wait too even though you have to wait for bilirubin levels to drop. If your dad is keen to get chemo started I would question that. On the other hand your dad may decide on no treatment at all and that's his decision. I wish your dad the very best whatever he decides.

Julia

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Re: My lovely Dad

Postby PCUK Nurse Dianne » Thu Jan 30, 2014 11:17 am

Hi Janiebobs,

Welcome to the forum, and I can see you already have support from this very supportive 'forum family'. I am sorry to hear about your father's diagnosis, and all that it involves. I would like to email you independently of the forum just to go over a few tips that may help.

For anyone who does wish to contact us, our email is: support@pancreaticcancer.org.uk and our support line is open between 10am and 4pm Monday to Friday. Please feel free to call us if we are ever able to support and help you.

Kind regards,

Dianne
Pancreatic Cancer Specialist nurse
Support Team

Janiebobs
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Re: My lovely Dad

Postby Janiebobs » Thu Jan 30, 2014 8:40 pm

Thank you Julia my dad lives on the west coast. Yes the two professionals disagreed but no mention was made about the intestines on Tuesday. The original CT scan was down in Manchester and Cumbria professions say it is not that clear. He had a smaller scan on his kidneys and one dr said it was a cyst and the other said it was cancer but it was another primary and the PC was the one they need to deal with now.
I got the impression they wanted my dad to build himself up as he is so frail! I will encourage dad to go back to his GP when I go back up at the weekend.
Thank you Dianne for your informative email.
Jane

Janiebobs
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Re: My lovely Dad

Postby Janiebobs » Wed Feb 26, 2014 8:00 am

Dear All,
My dad has had his best week since the diagnosis. His stent has worked and his jaundice was down to 41 so he is much more comfortable. He saw the oncologist who said there had been a meeting and gastriologist (sorry about spelling) who had fitted Dad's stent had been enquiring at the specialist hospital if an operation was feasible. The oncologists advised caution and talked about survival rate and my Dad's age and health. The oncologist and dad talked about chemo and as dad is going away this weekend they decided to start the week after next.
Though he had a slight set back he has had constipation since being diagnosed but became loose for a couple of days which made him very low as he thought it was the next stage of the illness. The oncologist was able to reassure him and encouraged him to take more creon than the 3 he has been diagnosed with daily especially if eating fatty foods.
He has had a swollen ankle and the oncologist examined it and said he didn't think it was flabitious(?)
I wanted to ask everyone some advice my dad has a rash on his forehead when reading the side effects of creon it does say 1% can suffer from a rash I wonder if anyone else had and did they use anything to help.
Many thanks
Jane

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Re: My lovely Dad

Postby Slewis7313 » Wed Feb 26, 2014 8:41 am

Hi Jane, it is good to hear that things are settling down with you Dad. As far as the Creons go, I have been taking them for 14 months now and have had no noticeable side effects. I am sure however that others here will comment and may be able to help. I also had GemCap (Gemcitibine and Capecitabine) chemo for 4 months and again had only a few side effects, namely a rash on my stomach which was cleared up with anti histamines and was sick on 2 occasions. All in all, it was not bad though I was very tired for around 12 hours after each infusion.

I hope all goes well with the chemo and that your Dad enjoys his weekend away.

Steve
X

Cathy
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Re: My lovely Dad

Postby Cathy » Wed Feb 26, 2014 6:32 pm

Hi Jane

Sorry, I can't give any advice but I do recollect others on here reporting a rash which went.

Best to ask the nurses on here as they would undoubtably know if this might be a possible cause.

Best wishes

Cathy xxx

Janiebobs
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Re: My lovely Dad

Postby Janiebobs » Sat Apr 26, 2014 10:08 pm

Hi All.
I thought I would bring you up to date with Dad's treatment. He has just completed his second cycle of gemcitabine he is coping well and although he seems to have become frailer and is sleeping more often, he is now in better spirits and feels the chemo is giving him more time. Luckily he is eating well (suffers from constipation) copes well with creon and his blood sugar level is under control only spiking slightly when he has 'pensioner special' which he enjoys weekly. He isn't in pain however he has been having problems with his lower legs swelling. He had antibiotic a couple of weeks ago which seem to help however since finishing the course, they have ballooned again. His district nurse has measured him for support stockings and I am encouraging him to see his GP on Monday.
After reading other posts about poor care which some other PC patients have received I realise how lucky Dad has been with his care. Unfortunately I live a 3 hour drive away from my parents so I don't see them as often as I would like, though my own family and work have been very supportive when have gone north for long weekends.

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Re: My lovely Dad

Postby PCUK Nurse Jeni » Mon Apr 28, 2014 12:37 pm

Hi Jane,

Thanks for the update. Good to hear that your dad is coping well enough on the chemo and has a good appetite.

The leg swelling is probably from the Gemcitabine, as this is a well known side effect from this drug.

Make sure that he elevates his legs when he can - if possible, equal or higher than hip level, in order to facilitate drainage, but whatever he can manage. Also, when he is asleep at night, if he can put a pillow or cushion under his feet and ankles, that will help. (make sure it is not a bulky pillow, as you don't really want it putting pressure on his calves either).

If he mentions this to his oncologist the next time he sees him, they may give him some tablets which help excrete excess water as well.

Kind regards,

Jeni, support team.