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by Ella50
Sun Aug 26, 2012 4:02 pm
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: brother dying so much unresolved in his life
Replies: 66
Views: 37014

Re: brother dying so much unresolved in his life

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss.

I write with deep sadness as I realise the struggle and bravery of our loved ones ..
Your brother is now pain free.. you done him & your family proud.

My thoughts and prayers are with you at this difficult time.

Take care.. keep in touch

Love Ella xx
by Ella50
Sat Aug 25, 2012 8:47 pm
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: My Feisty Mum!!!
Replies: 10
Views: 10029

Re: My Feisty Mum!!!

Hi Jan, I didnt realise how hard I would find replying to your post, is so exact to my mams story.
I think it would be best if I write again soon (before any more tears (what am I like)
Hope your ok,
Thinking of you Love Ella
xx
by Ella50
Sat Aug 25, 2012 8:12 pm
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: bri's progress
Replies: 93
Views: 57755

Re: bri's progress

Awh Laura Im so pleased to read about your wonderful news, is so refreshing to hear.
You both must be thrilled !!
Have a fab hol, relax and enjoy eachother..
Love Ella
xxx
by Ella50
Sat Aug 25, 2012 8:05 pm
Forum: Coping with loss/ Memorial
Topic: Welcome to this new forum on coping with loss
Replies: 31
Views: 48808

Re: Welcome to this new forum on coping with loss

Oh Catherine, Please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of your precious son Gavin. The time they took to diagnose to the heartbreaking loss is surreal. I lost my mam just over 6 weeks ago to PC ,she was diagnosed on the last day of April, the quickness of it was so so frightening, I still ca...
by Ella50
Sat Aug 25, 2012 7:47 pm
Forum: Coping with loss/ Memorial
Topic: Missing Mam so much - Mam's Spirit
Replies: 9
Views: 16822

Re: Missing Mam so much - Mam's Spirit

Hi all, Its just over 6 weeks since I lost my beautiful mam. I still cant believe that she has gone. Her stone was ready last weekend and we had a service on Monday for her, to bury her ashes.. it has set me back alot.. tho is nice I now have somewhere to go. I feel im getting worse as the weeks go ...
by Ella50
Mon Aug 13, 2012 12:54 pm
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: brother dying so much unresolved in his life
Replies: 66
Views: 37014

Re: brother dying so much unresolved in his life

Hi there,, my heart goes out to you.. its not easy and everyone is different.. many relationships can change during this time. some people may pleasantly surprise you. things you think will happen, may never quite turn out that way. I really do wish the best for you. glad your brother is where he wa...
by Ella50
Mon Aug 13, 2012 1:40 am
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: Come on Eileen (My Mam) Died 11.08.12
Replies: 70
Views: 39589

Re: Come on Eileen (My Mam) Died 11.08.12

Nicola, im so sorry to read about your mam
Take care of yourself,

love Ella xx
by Ella50
Mon Aug 13, 2012 1:33 am
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: My Feisty Mum!!!
Replies: 10
Views: 10029

Re: My Feisty Mum!!!

Hi Jan.. Im so sorry to read about your mam. I can understand how your feeling and how quick life can suddenly change.. I lost my mam just a month ago to pc.. My mam was also diagnosed in April this year, with more scans etc throughout May.. im in my 40's and also feel so lost. My mam was ready to f...
by Ella50
Thu Aug 09, 2012 10:20 pm
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: brother dying so much unresolved in his life
Replies: 66
Views: 37014

Re: brother dying so much unresolved in his life

Sending lots of love.. Ella xx
by Ella50
Thu Aug 09, 2012 9:51 pm
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: Come on Eileen (My Mam) Died 11.08.12
Replies: 70
Views: 39589

Re: Come on Eileen (My Mam)

Hi Nicola, I have never sent any private messages on here before, but if you're able to contact me Im sure i'll be able to help x

Hope your doing ok Louie

Take care all

xxx
by Ella50
Sat Jul 28, 2012 10:01 am
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: brother dying so much unresolved in his life
Replies: 66
Views: 37014

Re: brother dying so much unresolved in his life

So sorry to read your post hun.. afraid I cant offer any advice on the sickness. though I did find my mam slept a little more when her medication got increased, but only temporary. If ever hospice is an option I will second everything Alison has said. My mam perked up once there !! I think she felt ...
by Ella50
Fri Jul 27, 2012 4:57 pm
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: My world just fell apart ( My Mam) Died 3rd Dec
Replies: 42
Views: 26831

Re: My world just fell apart

Hi Francis,
Take care and stay strong,
Thinking of you..
Love Ella xx
by Ella50
Fri Jul 27, 2012 3:43 pm
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: Come on Eileen (My Mam) Died 11.08.12
Replies: 70
Views: 39589

Re: Come on Eileen (My Mam)

Hi Nicola, Just like to say my heart goes out to you hun.. Surreal isnt it!? It must bring comfort to your mother knowing your there for her and doing your best.. Its great to hear that your mam is still eating.. maybe with the extra steroids they will help with her appetite?! I thought steroids don...
by Ella50
Wed Jul 25, 2012 7:17 pm
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: Ella - My Amazing Mam, Passed, Devastated 10.07.12
Replies: 15
Views: 9762

Re: Ella - My Amazing Mam, Passed, Devastated. (& other side)

Hi Louie, I can so understand everything you have said and it brings tears to my eyes. My emotions are all over the place.. as soon as I knew my mam was terminal I started to grieve and had so much anger then. I put my feelings on hold as all my energy was focussed around my mam, but now everything ...
by Ella50
Wed Jul 25, 2012 4:33 pm
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: Ella - My Amazing Mam, Passed, Devastated 10.07.12
Replies: 15
Views: 9762

Re: Ella - My Amazing Mam, Passed, Devastated. (& other side)

Thankyou so much Cheryl, that means alot..

Hope all ok with you and your loved one..

Take care, Love Ella xx

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