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by sheena
Tue Apr 19, 2016 10:17 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Dealing with Mum's diagnosis...
Replies: 73
Views: 41048

Re: Dealing with Mum's diagnosis...

What ever she fancies then let her have .Steve had a craze for bitter lemon drinks can't believe how much he drank ,he also loved lemon sorbet so I guess he was into sharp tasting things .Steve was stubborn to and I believe that's what kept him going 3 times the Dr said he only had hours to live but...
by sheena
Tue Apr 19, 2016 10:02 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: frustrated
Replies: 361
Views: 108943

Re: frustrated

Thanks.

They say all the firsts are the hardest - don't have to wait long as Steve's birthday is Thursday and my granddaughter is due tomorrow so might be born on his birthday which would be lovely x
by sheena
Tue Apr 19, 2016 6:10 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: frustrated
Replies: 361
Views: 108943

Re: frustrated

Every thing is sorted. Coffin came today so that's a relief. We have made little posies of roses - white from children, red from me. Grandchildren have read through the order of service and its looking good. Sunshine predicted as well. The hospice has kindly said I can go on Thursday to place flower...
by sheena
Sun Apr 17, 2016 8:10 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: frustrated
Replies: 361
Views: 108943

Re: frustrated

Hi to you all Steve's funeral is on Wednesday at 1pm .I am dreading it ,never realised how many people needed notifying but my girls have been good and done alot for me.Saturday wasn't a good day for me I felt sick and shakey and had a awful headache but today is better ,my grandsons came to see me ...
by sheena
Thu Apr 14, 2016 8:58 am
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: frustrated
Replies: 361
Views: 108943

Re: frustrated

Steve passed peacefully at 7am this morning a gentleman and trooper till the end x
by sheena
Tue Apr 12, 2016 10:22 am
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: frustrated
Replies: 361
Views: 108943

Re: frustrated

Well my friends I have been at the hospice since Wednesday and I am still here.Steve doesn't want to pass yet ,Dr has been twice and really don't no why or how he is holding on .I guess he was always stubborn and would like to think he is having a nose around before he decides the best place.
by sheena
Fri Apr 08, 2016 8:49 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: frustrated
Replies: 361
Views: 108943

Re: frustrated

My 3rd night at hospice Steve is now calmly sleeping no pain all under control just waiting for his time.Have said some beautiful things over last few days but last night he was in a party mood being very cheeky planning his b day for the 21st April.had a coffee with whisky in and that I am afraid i...
by sheena
Sun Apr 03, 2016 11:09 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: frustrated
Replies: 361
Views: 108943

Re: frustrated

Thanks guys it has stickers Sandra and it is a celebration of his life .He is coming into the service with Scotland's rugby anthem flower of scotland on bagpipes ,and bette Midler song the rose .all the children have written about him and its beautiful .his best mate will give a few words as well an...
by sheena
Sun Apr 03, 2016 7:44 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Dealing with Mum's diagnosis...
Replies: 73
Views: 41048

Re: Dealing with Mum's diagnosis...

Hi sorry to hear about your mum .my hubby had a relatively good 10 months of doing everything he wanted .He is stubborn and pushed himself every day to do his own thing,sadly we are close to the end but he put up a good fight for 13 months.let your mum go with the flow I am sure she will surprise x
by sheena
Sun Apr 03, 2016 6:26 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: frustrated
Replies: 361
Views: 108943

Re: frustrated

Well Steve is hanging on by a thread .eating nothing mobility poor but he came home for 2 hours yesterday I think for one more look around he is now almost bed ridden no strength left not really talking much just closes his eyes and hopefully dreaming nice things.Not sure how long we have left but i...
by sheena
Fri Mar 25, 2016 6:08 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: frustrated
Replies: 361
Views: 108943

Re: frustrated

Settled in well Dr said a very large tumour on liver and can't find the stent anywhere.Steve is happy and managed a bit of hot cross bun .He wants to see funeral directors next week so I'm going to find that hard,he also wants a shocking pink coffin as he loved his stade de France rugby shirts of br...
by sheena
Wed Mar 23, 2016 3:52 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: frustrated
Replies: 361
Views: 108943

Re: frustrated

Yes yes yes hospice bed tomorrow I am so relieved it's like winning the lottery .now my precious Steve can be cared for and I can now be his wife again and enjoy the next hours days week's .my heart is bursting and a lump in my throat feels huge but I'm holding on .Ty so much my friends love you all x
by sheena
Tue Mar 22, 2016 11:40 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: frustrated
Replies: 361
Views: 108943

Re: frustrated

Well Steve is still here not sure how. Just about can walk as so weak eating sorbet that's it. Palliative nurse promises he is next on list for hospice bed so hopefully tomorrow. He is still jaundiced but has decided not to have a new stent fitted, which I'm glad as I don't think he would have made ...
by sheena
Thu Mar 17, 2016 11:24 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: frustrated
Replies: 361
Views: 108943

Re: frustrated

Hoping to get him in hospice soon as he wants to be there and doesn't want any more treatment if they can offer him any .Steve is ready to pass and I have given him my blessing so now in the hands of God ,please make it quick as he is wanting to die and not be like this life is so cruel my previous ...
by sheena
Thu Mar 17, 2016 11:18 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: frustrated
Replies: 361
Views: 108943

Re: frustrated

Seen Dr today Steve having bloods tomorrow reckons jaundice is from cancer on liver and not blocked stent .Will speak to oncologist but by the way Dr spoke its almost like we will keep Steve comfortable but can't do anything else.

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