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by NICOLA
Mon Oct 08, 2012 1:30 pm
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: Update on my Dad
Replies: 62
Views: 30662

Re: Update on my Dad

So sorry Rachel, words are not enough to take away the pain. Your dad will always be your Hero x
by NICOLA
Wed Oct 03, 2012 2:27 pm
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: My poor mum pushed from pillar to post
Replies: 25
Views: 12440

Re: My poor mum pushed from pillar to post

God, thats awful, my mum too suffered alot of incompetence throughout her care I often used to say what century are we living in here or is this a third world country ? It is so frustrating.
I hope your mum is getting the care she needs now. I hope you are staying strong.
Nicola x
by NICOLA
Mon Oct 01, 2012 5:00 pm
Forum: General chat
Topic: new to this
Replies: 73
Views: 43857

Re: new to this

Stay strong Susikus, it sounds like your doing a fantastic job.
by NICOLA
Mon Oct 01, 2012 4:57 pm
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: Update on my Dad
Replies: 62
Views: 30662

Re: Update on my Dad

Hi Rachel

So sorry to read your recent posts, this is such a mirror imaage of how it was with my mam at the end. I hope he is peaceful at the end my mam wasnt, thinking of you.
Lots of Love Nicola.
by NICOLA
Mon Sep 24, 2012 6:11 pm
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: My world just fell apart ( My Mam) Died 3rd Dec
Replies: 42
Views: 26617

Re: My world just fell apart

Thinking of you Francis stay strong ad just take one day at a time, give your mum lots of hugs. What I would give to give my mam one last cuddle x
by NICOLA
Thu Aug 30, 2012 5:00 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Feeling so sad.
Replies: 10
Views: 6150

Re: Feeling so sad.

Hi Suz, I lost my mam coming upto 3 weeks ago, I feel like i'm coping really well but I'm thinking its going to hit me like a brick soon, we were so close. My mam to didnt have a peacful end she was calling out my name begging for help, this will stay with me for the rest of my life. Im desperatly l...
by NICOLA
Sun Aug 26, 2012 8:33 am
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: MY MUM
Replies: 54
Views: 32341

Re: MY MUM

Hi ma2houra, Im so sorry your mum has gone, I lost my mam 2 weeks ago to this awful cancer, it seems most stories on here follow the same pathway, we try our hardest to help but I just felt like a spectator watching my mam fade away. My mam too had a surge of energy 1 hour before she died the palati...
by NICOLA
Fri Aug 24, 2012 12:33 pm
Forum: Coping with loss/ Memorial
Topic: Missing Mam so much - Mam's Spirit
Replies: 9
Views: 16272

Re: Missing Mam so much - Mam's Spirit

Thank you Francis, I have heard about loved ones coming to you in dreams, my friend lost her mum and it was over a year later when she came to her in a dream, she said she looked beautiful and when she opened her eyes she saw her at the end of her bed for a few seconds. Stories like that of your bro...
by NICOLA
Fri Aug 24, 2012 9:39 am
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: bri's progress
Replies: 93
Views: 57031

Re: bri's progress

Excellent news for you both xxx
by NICOLA
Fri Aug 24, 2012 9:38 am
Forum: Coping with loss/ Memorial
Topic: Missing Mam so much - Mam's Spirit
Replies: 9
Views: 16272

Missing Mam so much - Mam's Spirit

It will be 2 weeks on Sat when I lost my wonderful mam....Im really finding it so hard that Im never going to see her again. I am catholic and really do believe in life after death. I thought that when mam died I would feel her around me, some people have said give it time, some people have said bel...
by NICOLA
Wed Aug 15, 2012 5:01 pm
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: Come on Eileen (My Mam) Died 11.08.12
Replies: 70
Views: 39164

Re: Come on Eileen (My Mam) Died 11.08.12

Hi Francis, Im doing ok, I dont know how I am doing so well when I have lost my best friend and mam, she meant the world to me, she was such a strong person herself she had a tough upbringing I think I have inherited her strength, I am greatful that there are so many jobs to do and arrangements to m...
by NICOLA
Tue Aug 14, 2012 9:56 am
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: Come on Eileen (My Mam) Died 11.08.12
Replies: 70
Views: 39164

Re: Come on Eileen (My Mam) Died 11.08.12

Thank you everyone, thank you Deb such helpful wordsxxx
Nicola
by NICOLA
Mon Aug 13, 2012 11:02 am
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: Come on Eileen (My Mam) Died 11.08.12
Replies: 70
Views: 39164

Re: Come on Eileen (My Mam) Died 11.08.12

Thanks, Francis, Apparently Im being told maybe mum wasnt in that much pain, part of it could have been terminal restlessness or delirium. I dont know......hope your mums ok x
by NICOLA
Sat Aug 11, 2012 7:47 pm
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: Come on Eileen (My Mam) Died 11.08.12
Replies: 70
Views: 39164

Re: Come on Eileen (My Mam) Died Today 11.08.12

Mam died today.........at 1pm. No one should have to die like that rolling around shouting for help, I knew she was very near the end all of the signs were there, we constantly asked her if she was in any pain, she always said just an ache which we managed with Oramorph until last night it seemed to...
by NICOLA
Thu Aug 09, 2012 9:15 pm
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: Come on Eileen (My Mam) Died 11.08.12
Replies: 70
Views: 39164

Re: Come on Eileen (My Mam)

Mum is sleeping 90% of the time now, the doc and Mac nurse have said only days left. She's so weak, not eating only drinking, she has had to have a camode in her room as she cant walk to the bathroom, her wee is almost orange, it is killing me to see her like this. We have had a steady stream of vis...

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