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by yanina
Thu Jun 08, 2017 6:50 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Nina's Dad
Replies: 57
Views: 47037

Re: Nina's Dad

thank you so much for your reply's and words of encouragement really does mean a lot its great that i can say what im feeling and know that some one knows what im going thru. i find my self ignoring her when she goes on one i either go quiet and say nothing or just change the subject quickly.. im go...
by yanina
Wed Jun 07, 2017 5:00 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Nina's Dad
Replies: 57
Views: 47037

Re: Nina's Dad

hi all its been a while :) 6 months to the day yesterday dad died, im coping well and being strong i do my grieving away from people , but mum still cant accept hes gone, totally understandable but her grief is dragging me down, as im having to cope with hers as well as mine, this in turn is making ...
by yanina
Thu Mar 09, 2017 6:24 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Nina's Dad
Replies: 57
Views: 47037

Re: Nina's Dad

hi all its been a while, but been trying to move forward after dads funeral. i think im coping but still cant belive hes gone. mums not coping at night, she still having someone stay with her. wich is starting to cause a few problems with my younger brother as hes one of the people staying at night....
by yanina
Mon Jan 30, 2017 8:00 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Nina's Dad
Replies: 57
Views: 47037

Re: Nina's Dad

hi every one, its been a while. dads funeral went ahead without any problems and the church was packed! there wasnt a seat spare in the church, im amazed at how many people knew my dad, and came to pay their respects its was so comforting to know how well thought of my dad was. people came from his ...
by yanina
Sun Jan 22, 2017 9:37 am
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Nina's Dad
Replies: 57
Views: 47037

Re: Nina's Dad

hi all sorry its been a while but , theres been a lot to do sorting dads funeral out wich is this coming wednesday, not looing forwrrd to it to say the least. ive been coping and trying to support mum best i can by being there for her every day durning the day time and going home to be with my famil...
by yanina
Fri Jan 06, 2017 6:54 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Nina's Dad
Replies: 57
Views: 47037

Re: Nina's Dad

i write with sadness in my heart to you all tonight, at 5.30 am this morning my hero my dad sadly passed away piecefully with mum by his side. he is no longer suffering and no longer in pain, words can not describe how im feeling right now. this horrible cancer took my dad so quick my self and rest ...
by yanina
Thu Jan 05, 2017 7:07 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Nina's Dad
Replies: 57
Views: 47037

Re: Nina's Dad

evening all , hope every one is as well as can be expectd. dads been taken into hospital today as he had a turn for the worse mum rung 999 and ambulance took him. lady from hospice came to see him and toldus still no bed for him but they will be keeping in hospital, and that is only a matter of days...
by yanina
Wed Jan 04, 2017 2:26 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Nina's Dad
Replies: 57
Views: 47037

Re: Nina's Dad

Hi, Thanks for all your lovely and caring comments - you don't know how much they mean to myself and mum. District nurse has been today and assessed dad again spoke to mum and my self , and spoke to dad about the hospice. Dad has said he doesn't want to go his words were "he knows he wont come out"....
by yanina
Tue Jan 03, 2017 8:45 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Nina's Dad
Replies: 57
Views: 47037

Re: Nina's Dad

It's been a while but been helping mum with dad. I'm there every day from 9am till 2/3pm . District nurses have been amazing and got mum and dad the help the need. Mum now has carers going in so mum can get the well deserved rest she needs at night. Dads become very irritable and very nasty more tow...
by yanina
Thu Dec 29, 2016 7:01 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Nina's Dad
Replies: 57
Views: 47037

Re: Nina's Dad

hi all xxx .. finally things are looking posative , dads having a bed delivered tomorrow and a comode as hes not safe to be going up and down stairs. some one from pallative care have been to see mum and dad, dad spoke to her about how he was feeling but mum couldnt be there while he spoke about thi...
by yanina
Thu Dec 29, 2016 5:12 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Nina's Dad
Replies: 57
Views: 47037

Re: Nina's Dad

Hi V xxx Trying to stay strong for me and stay strong for mum is proving hard at the moment. I have 2 brothers but I feel everything is being put onto my shoulders! I don't work due to health issues, so I am doing more but its taking its toll on me. I'm encouraging mum to eat every day as she's not ...
by yanina
Thu Dec 29, 2016 1:55 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Nina's Dad
Replies: 57
Views: 47037

Re: Nina's Dad

hi all xxx .. finally things are looking posative , dads having a bed delivered tomorrow and a comode as hes not safe to be going up and down stairs. some one from pallative care have been to see mum and dad, dad spoke to her about how he was feeling but mum couldnt be there while he spoke about thi...
by yanina
Tue Dec 27, 2016 8:31 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Nina's Dad
Replies: 57
Views: 47037

Re: Nina's Dad

hi Mo sorry not been about ive been so busy helping mum with dad, and doing her shopping ect. what can i say christmas was not the same and will never be the same again. dad had no idea bless him he was asleep on and off all day. dad hardly ate anything had his breakfast and a small amout of his chr...
by yanina
Sun Dec 18, 2016 7:08 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Nina's Dad
Replies: 57
Views: 47037

Re: Nina's Dad

evening all. been to mum and dads for sunday lunch today. mum had said dad didnt have a good nights sleep as his sleeping tabs didnt work. dad took its out on mum thats he'd been away since 1am. mum said why didnt you call me in i would have come( they sleep in seperate rooms mum snores )dads frustr...
by yanina
Sat Dec 17, 2016 4:39 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Nina's Dad
Replies: 57
Views: 47037

Re: Nina's Dad

afternoon. been to see dad at home this afternoon. seemed ok. hes got his opointment for his biopsy on thrusday,they told him he will be there 5 hours just hope all goes well. he way saying he feels as hes got trapped wind as he can feel his stomach rumbling, but i think he's confusing it with pain ...

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