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by Bryansie
Mon Sep 14, 2015 10:57 am
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: Brother with inoperable pancreatic cancer
Replies: 35
Views: 27987

Re: Brother with inoperable pancreatic cancer

My brother never got to see his new home, let alone live in it, I truly believe he did not want to go there as it would have made it harder for his partner, having him there for a few weeks and then he passed away.
Life is very strangeand stranger things happen/don't happen for a reason.
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by Bryansie
Mon Sep 14, 2015 10:48 am
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: Brother with inoperable pancreatic cancer
Replies: 35
Views: 27987

Re: Brother with inoperable pancreatic cancer

Good Morning to each and everyone of you, I have not been on here for so long, 2 days after my last visit to see my beautiful brother I got a call to say he did not have long, I rushed to London and spent his final 5 days with him, every minute was a blessing, some sad, some funny, we kissed, we lau...
by Bryansie
Wed Jul 15, 2015 8:04 pm
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: Brother with inoperable pancreatic cancer
Replies: 35
Views: 27987

Re: Brother with inoperable pancreatic cancer

My thoughts and wishes to all of my dear Friends on this site. I have just got back from London, I stayed with my brother all day and night at the hospice, they have put a make shift bed in his room, it was nice as his wife was able to have a break and I spent quality time with him. They are still t...
by Bryansie
Sun Jul 12, 2015 6:42 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Bad news
Replies: 107
Views: 38415

Re: Bad news

Hi Didge
Good news to hear Rob is back home, I feel for you being away from him, that is how I feel about my brother Mick.
I hope your birthdays are good ones and you have a great party.
Take care
Sue xoxoxox
by Bryansie
Sun Jul 12, 2015 6:37 pm
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: Brother with inoperable pancreatic cancer
Replies: 35
Views: 27987

Re: Brother with inoperable pancreatic cancer

Once again a big thanks for your support. I was going up to see my brother today as I really did not think he would be with me on tuesday which is the day that I go to see him, his wife called and said the ambulance crew were impressed as they did not have to carry him to the ambulance, he very slow...
by Bryansie
Fri Jul 10, 2015 6:31 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Mum's diagnosis
Replies: 650
Views: 212382

Re: Mum's diagnosis

Hi Sue glad your mum is home, home is where the heart is and being round your own surroundings are a good tonic in themselves.
Take care, I went through similar with my mum, emotions everywhere x x x
by Bryansie
Fri Jul 10, 2015 6:27 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Steve's story
Replies: 25
Views: 12525

Re: Steve's story

Big hugs to you Sheena & Steve, my thoughts and prays are with you both. x x
by Bryansie
Fri Jul 10, 2015 6:20 pm
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: Brother with inoperable pancreatic cancer
Replies: 35
Views: 27987

Re: Brother with inoperable pancreatic cancer

My darling brother has taken a turn for the worse, my head is everywhere and what makes it worse I am 120 miles away. Since I left him wednesday he has been in contstant pain, his wife called the nurse,she came round and suggested he went into a Hospice so they can manage his pain, OMG it is real, i...
by Bryansie
Wed Jul 08, 2015 9:31 am
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Bad news
Replies: 107
Views: 38415

Re: Bad news

Dear Didge,
Sending you a big hug and my thoughts are with you, I sit here writing all about my sorrow, then read other members hearlfelt accounts, I am so sorry to hear your news. Keep strong.
Love
Sue
by Bryansie
Wed Jul 08, 2015 9:19 am
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: Brother with inoperable pancreatic cancer
Replies: 35
Views: 27987

Re: Brother with inoperable pancreatic cancer

Dear All, Thank you for taking the time to read my post let alone replying. Leila, I read your post from start to finish when my brother was first diagnosed, selfishly????? because I wanted an idea as to how long he would be with me, strange???????????? or normal!!. I went through so many emotions r...
by Bryansie
Wed Jul 01, 2015 10:21 pm
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: Brother with inoperable pancreatic cancer
Replies: 35
Views: 27987

Re: Brother with inoperable pancreatic cancer

I am trying to stay strong, I leave my brother each week feeling so lost and unable to do anything to help.He told me that the nurses had come round and discussed D.N.R he got upset and said he had decided to sign the dnr form, seeing him get upset puts tears in my eyes I try not to let him see me c...
by Bryansie
Thu Jun 25, 2015 4:02 pm
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: Brother with inoperable pancreatic cancer
Replies: 35
Views: 27987

Re: Brother with inoperable pancreatic cancer

Thank you leila/Didge/Fifi, I have just come back from spending 2 days with him, once again we discussed chemo and he has decided NO, I have already discussed alternative therapies with him, at the time he said he would try anything but now I feel he has accepted his outcome and what little energy h...
by Bryansie
Thu Jun 25, 2015 3:43 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Bad news
Replies: 107
Views: 38415

Re: Bad news

Hi Didge,
My thoughts are with you, I am so sorry that the chemo has not worked, your sad news has given my brother the understanding he wanted, he declined chemo as it is iminent what the outcome will be.

Once again I am so soryy, I hopeyou can take a little comfort from all of us here.
Sue
by Bryansie
Thu Jun 18, 2015 10:38 pm
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: Brother with inoperable pancreatic cancer
Replies: 35
Views: 27987

Re: Brother with inoperable pancreatic cancer

Thank you Didge/Sue for taking the time, not only to read my post but to reply to it. That's the thing, he went to a specialist hospital 10 days ago to discuss chemo, he declined the chemo,from what he has told me I feel he was advised that the chemo could possibly drain him leaving him physically w...
by Bryansie
Thu Jun 18, 2015 10:12 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Wish someone would help him
Replies: 428
Views: 126502

Re: Wish someone would help him

Dear Leila, I have joined this site for the same reason as everyone else. I lost both my parents to Bowel cancer and now my brother has pancreatic, reading your posts felt like it was me writing them, you were supportive to so many people when you were going through so much yourself. You and your da...

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