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by Sueba
Sat Feb 01, 2014 12:24 am
Forum: Coping with loss/ Memorial
Topic: How are all your Ladies coping ?
Replies: 19
Views: 19178

Re: How are all your Ladies coping ?

Hi all It's 11 weeks since Mick died and I still can't quite believe it.... As others have mentioned the pain of grief is the hardest thing,ups and downs all day,plus as you can see from the time I've posted I'm not sleeping! I went through the ordeal of an inquest yesterday,something else to bring ...
by Sueba
Sat Jan 11, 2014 6:29 pm
Forum: Coping with loss/ Memorial
Topic: A message of thanks of behalf of Linda
Replies: 12
Views: 12193

Re: A message of thanks of behalf of Linda

Hi Natalie I'm very sorry to hear of your mum passing away. This disease is awful and needs research and awareness to move on,I lost my 43 year old husband Mick in November to this dreadful disease,despite the brave battle he fought to stay in mine and our 3 sons lives!18 months ago I had not really...
by Sueba
Sat Jan 11, 2014 12:00 am
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Taking the plunge!
Replies: 128
Views: 41612

Re: Taking the plunge!

Hi all Not been on the forum much recently,so just want to send hugs to all! I'm still living hour by hour,as soon as I look forward I mentally collapse,so back to numbing my brain, I seem to have a strange existence at the moment,autopilot looking after the boys but then waves of grief in between f...
by Sueba
Fri Jan 03, 2014 12:30 am
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Taking the plunge!
Replies: 128
Views: 41612

Re: Taking the plunge!

Hi Bee You have done amazingly well! I lost my husband,at age 43,November 15th and found Christmas and New year extremely hard.My 3 boys were brilliant it was me in tears! But like you say we just need to live an hour at a time for now,numbing my brain seems to be a survival technique!trouble is I k...
by Sueba
Sun Dec 29, 2013 12:09 am
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: My husband massive pleural enfussion
Replies: 73
Views: 30719

Re: My husband massive pleural enfussion

Lyn
So sorry! I echo others on here,having lost my husband 6 weeks ago take every day hour by hour.
Sue
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by Sueba
Sun Dec 29, 2013 12:05 am
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Lost in a nightmare
Replies: 86
Views: 30832

Re: Lost in a nightmare

Hi Amanda
Like the others I just want to offer my support to you the ought this nightmare you are living!
Mick too had jaundice on diagnosis but showed to be the tumour blocking his bile duct so was relieved by a stent.
This however would have shown up on a scan.
Sending my love
Sue
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by Sueba
Sun Dec 15, 2013 11:09 am
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: Recently diagnosed!
Replies: 33
Views: 17958

Re: Recently diagnosed!

Hi Marie Sorry I don't think you've read my up to date post on here..... He passed away 4 weeks ago,still super fit etc suddenly,with a massive oesophageal bleed,cause still unknown till we get histology back. Miss him so much,but I've 3 sons I promised him I would look after so that's what I'm doin...
by Sueba
Sun Dec 15, 2013 9:35 am
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: Facebook
Replies: 4
Views: 3652

Facebook

Hi I'm just trying to find some of you on Facebook! If you want to find me I'm under Susan [surname removed - moderator] and my profile picture is of me and mick,I'm in a stripes dress,Karen I've forgotten your surname and some of you others I've tried finding there's a few of the same name and dare...
by Sueba
Sun Dec 15, 2013 12:01 am
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Taking the plunge!
Replies: 128
Views: 41612

Re: Taking the plunge!

Bee I don't think I have ever posted to you directly,and to be honest I haven't really been on the forum since my husband Mick passed away just 4 weeks ago. I'm so sad and angry that another "hero" has been taken leaving a big hole in our lives. The only comfort I have had recently is that we truly ...
by Sueba
Sat Dec 14, 2013 11:38 pm
Forum: Treatment & side effects
Topic: Nanoknife and Cyberknife
Replies: 16
Views: 13339

Re: Nanoknife and Cyberknife

Hi We too faced this attitude when Mick was diagnosed,inoperable and that's it basically! Well actually no!we too looked at nano knife and cyber knife as they seemed promising. As you may know we went to Heidelberg where the attitude over there was so different,we can help you! Why can't you have th...
by Sueba
Fri Nov 22, 2013 8:08 am
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: Information re; Heidelberg.
Replies: 8
Views: 4341

Re: Information re; Heidelberg.

Sending hugs
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by Sueba
Thu Nov 21, 2013 10:24 pm
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: Information re; Heidelberg.
Replies: 8
Views: 4341

Re: Information re; Heidelberg.

Mick just rang prof Buechlers secretary ,then she just told him what things he needed.
Good luck
Sue
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by Sueba
Sat Nov 16, 2013 7:27 am
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: Devastated
Replies: 17
Views: 7962

Devastated

Hi I'm up early didn't sleep much last night.... I'm devastated to tell you all my best friend,rock and beautiful husband died yesterday morning,unexpectedly and very quickly. I want to tell you what happened. As you may know Mick was diagnosed over a year ago age 42 with advanced inoperable pancrea...
by Sueba
Sat Nov 09, 2013 10:41 am
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: Successful Surgery in Heidelberg Germany - Inoperable in UK
Replies: 29
Views: 34073

Re: Successful Surgery in Heidelberg Germany - Inoperable in UK

Hi Amanda Thanks for posting about your experience. My husband also had a whipples in Heidelberg in February 2013 after being diagnosed with advanced inoperable pancreatic cancer last October and was basically given 4 months to live by the surgeon. We are not saying it's a miracle cure but he is in ...
by Sueba
Thu Oct 31, 2013 7:56 am
Forum: Advanced pancreatic cancer
Topic: Heidelberg University Hospital
Replies: 87
Views: 35655

Re: Heidelberg University Hospital

Steve
We are so sorry to hear your news about the unsuccessful op.
All we can say is that you've tried that option ,recover and then battle on with the next option,as they said the battle is not over!
Sending all our love to you and your family
Sue
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