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by Veema
Tue Jan 16, 2018 10:02 am
Forum: General chat
Topic: Diabetes management with pancreatic cancer diagnosis
Replies: 1
Views: 87

Re: Diabetes management with pancreatic cancer diagnosis

I'd perhaps give one of the PCUK nurses a ring...

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by Veema
Mon Jan 15, 2018 1:39 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Concerned husband
Replies: 4
Views: 179

Re: Concerned husband

Folfirinox is a chemo that she'll either tolerate well or not and you wont know that until she gives it a go...my husband tolerated it very well and had a good quality of life. On a practical level, you need a referral to palliative care...they will help with lots of things, pain medication being on...
by Veema
Mon Jan 15, 2018 12:36 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Thanks for sharing your experiences . . .
Replies: 702
Views: 134328

Re: Thanks for sharing your experiences . . .

I don't have the figure for hot pants unfortunately...
by Veema
Sun Jan 14, 2018 10:22 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Thanks for sharing your experiences . . .
Replies: 702
Views: 134328

Re: Thanks for sharing your experiences . . .

I love Time to Say Goodbye...that would defo make me cry. I had Queen's You're my Best Friend...still makes me cry whenever I hear it now...we only get a 20 minute slot at the crem...and you leave via a back door, so that you don't clash with the next funeral waiting outside the front door! I wanted...
by Veema
Sun Jan 14, 2018 3:04 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Don’t know where to start
Replies: 21
Views: 1775

Re: Don’t know where to start

I agree...always ring if you are worried...if it turns out to be nothing, then there's nothing lost...there's no need for her to be in pain, there are many different types of painkillers they can try. The eating thing is something that has frustrated us all...appetite seems to go out of the window w...
by Veema
Sat Jan 13, 2018 11:19 am
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Don’t know where to start
Replies: 21
Views: 1775

Re: Don’t know where to start

Hi Christine...apologies for not replying sooner, but you'll probably have noticed we've all been rallying round Mo...I hope things went well on Friday. Glad to see that the tummy issues have settled...creon should also help keep things normal in that respect. I'm not sure if I've mentioned it befor...
by Veema
Sat Jan 13, 2018 11:10 am
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Thanks for sharing your experiences . . .
Replies: 702
Views: 134328

Re: Thanks for sharing your experiences . . .

There you see the Anglican funeral is all so much less complicated...have a chat to the vicar about the dead person, he comes up with a eulogy, choose a few hymns and a suitable reading, a nice venue and what you want on your butties and Bob's your uncle! Seriously though, I got some pleasure and co...
by Veema
Fri Jan 12, 2018 1:22 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Thanks for sharing your experiences . . .
Replies: 702
Views: 134328

Re: Thanks for sharing your experiences . . .

I'm a PG tips sort of gal too...my mum buys cheapo supermarket stuff and it's awful...I also like it really strong with little milk...she likes it like milky p!ss. When I emailed Mo the other day I said it's a strange, anticlimactic sort of feeling...I didn't know what to do with myself after so lon...
by Veema
Wed Jan 10, 2018 7:47 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Thanks for sharing your experiences . . .
Replies: 702
Views: 134328

Re: Thanks for sharing your experiences . . .

I had that quote on Nige's funeral order of service...its a Winnie the Pooh quote.

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by Veema
Wed Jan 10, 2018 5:00 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Thanks for sharing your experiences . . .
Replies: 702
Views: 134328

Re: Thanks for sharing your experiences . . .

Oh Mo...I feel so, so sad for you. Peter was amazing, you've been amazing. You're now amongst many of us who have gone before you...and we will help you through.

Sleep tight Peter.

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by Veema
Wed Jan 10, 2018 2:10 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Thanks for sharing your experiences . . .
Replies: 702
Views: 134328

Re: Thanks for sharing your experiences . . .

Much love Mo...the sitting and waiting is a strange time...Nige was surrounded by his family when he died, and my Dad was too (except me) and I think that's what they would have wanted...but you are absolutely right to do what's right for you and Peter. Lots of virtual hugs (I hate being hugged by r...
by Veema
Tue Jan 09, 2018 7:46 am
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Thanks for sharing your experiences . . .
Replies: 702
Views: 134328

Re: Thanks for sharing your experiences . . .

Lovely to hear from you and pleased that you're both being looked after. I think you have to be a special sort of person to be in the profession of looking after people and even more special when you are looking after those that are in their final days.

Lots of love and thoughts.

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by Veema
Mon Jan 08, 2018 1:28 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Thanks for sharing your experiences . . .
Replies: 702
Views: 134328

Re: Thanks for sharing your experiences . . .

Gosh Dandy...we live on take away and supernoodles now over 12 months on...I must be a shocking mother!

She's right though Mo...you've just got to do it your way.

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by Veema
Sun Jan 07, 2018 3:48 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Thanks for sharing your experiences . . .
Replies: 702
Views: 134328

Re: Thanks for sharing your experiences . . .

Yes...it does bring it all back, although Nige went very quickly at the end. We know the sadness you feel and there will be many more tears to come...Boris will have to get used to it, I'm afraid. You do sound much more like the Mo we're used to today...the rest has paid off. I hope Peter stays as h...
by Veema
Fri Jan 05, 2018 11:37 pm
Forum: Family, friends and carers
Topic: Thanks for sharing your experiences . . .
Replies: 702
Views: 134328

Re: Thanks for sharing your experiences . . .

Night Mo.

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